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RINDA,
WHATEVER IN YOUR MIND NOW, JUST BELIEVE THAT YOU DESERVE TO BE HAPPY. NO MATTER
WHAT YOU HAVE GONE THROUGH, NO MATTER WHAT YOU ARE GOING TO HAVE IN YOUR LIFE,
NO MATTER WHAT YOU WORRY RIGHT NOW, NO MATTER HOW YOU FEEL, WHAT U FEEL ABOUT
YOURSELF NOW, NO MATTER HOW BAD YOUR SITUATION RIGHT NOW, YOU DESERVE TO BE
HAPPY, GAL. YOU HAVE WITH COURAGE GONE THROUGH WHOPPERS AND THERE IS NOTHING ON
EARTH HAS THE RIGHT TO ROB THE HAPPINESS FROM YOU, GOD WONT GIVE UNHAPPINESS TO
YOU, WHAT GOD PRESENTS YOU ARE ONLY GIFTS THAT ARE SOMETIMES DISGUISED IN THINGS THAT ACCORDING TO YOUR
SHORT THINKING AS MISFORTUNE, BUT WHEN YOU LOOK THEM VERY CLOSELY, YOU WILL
FIND THAT THEY ARE THE TREASURE OF YOUR LIFE BECAUSE YOU LEARN FROM THEM, THEY
TAUGHT YOU TO BE TOUGH, TO BEHAVE VERY WISE, TO LEARN THOSE ON EARTH THAT NEED
TO BE LEARNED. WHEN YOU REALIZE THE DISGUISES, YOU CAN DO NOTHING BUT SMILING
AND BEING GRATEFUL THAT YOU CAN FINALLY PASS THE DISGUISED MISFORTUNES, THAT
THOSE MAKE YOU TOUGH AND OPTIMISTIC ABOUT THE FUTURE. YOU DESERVE TO BE HAPPY GAL.
NONE HAS THE RIGHT TO ROB HAPPINESS FROM YOU. YOU DESERVE TO BE HAPPY, NONE HAS THE RIGHT TO TAKE AWAY YOUR HAPPINESS,
NONE CAN.

The definition of me as a complete
being:

I am not going to
let people to define who I am. I am responsible of what I do thus I am the one
who define who I am. I am not going to let people’s idea of me to take control
of me to define who I am. I am not what people think coz they don’t know about
me as much as I know about myself and not as much as God knows about me.

I am very happy to
be who I am and I am proud to be who I am. Though I am weak at some points, I
have strengths in some points. Though I am not perfect I am tough, smart and
grounded. I am not going to look for approval from people in the essence of me
since this is my soul and none has the right to control over my soul but God
only. I submit to God alone, so I am not going to let people to tell me what to
do especially when it transgresses God’s law.

I love me and I accept the way I am. Physically I have
flaws and it’s hard sometimes to make peace with this physical being, yet I
love the way I look and I accept who I am. I understand that I am given different
setting of place, time, and condition (social and cultural), and I accept this
situation (I am still dealing with this, it’s hard to deal but the first thing
to do to deal with it is to accept the situation I am in.)

Dear miss insecure,

Be secure since you have all
you need to be.

The life that I have has
been a very challenging one and I am not sure if I still have the strength to
carry on, but the fire inside me tells me not to quit.

Dear miss envy,

You have been claiming
that you have different settings and characters to meet with your friends, so
it’s such an odd story when your story is the same with others’. Seriously, are
you envious for all that she gets and experiences? If you live in such envies,
when are you going to move forward? The issue that you have is in your hand and
of course God’s. And it’s up to God and you how to handle this kind of issue.
Will not you be appreciative for everything that happens to you coz the bad
things are there to teach you and test you and the good things are there to
teach and test you. I don’t understand why you still care of thinking others’
stories but not narrate your story to be the best story you can narrate. It’s
no matter whether your story is going to be the best story or not, the thing
that really matters is that you narrate your story with given setting and
characters the best way you can. Knowing that you can be the best narrator of
your own story will strengthen you.

Dear miss
lonely,

I know that
you feel that you are alone in this world coz people seem not to understand,
but I assure you that it’s only what you think. People do care about you. I
know that you feel desperate thinking of your dreams but surely you can make them
come true. Don’t despair on God’s mercy. You just don’t understand His
wonderful blessings that you despair. Are you going to conform to those who
define happiness as having money, having boyfriend, having fancy cars, having
the biggest diamond on earth, having lotsa people who adore her/him? Isn’t it
time to define your own happiness? Why
do you have to agree or approve to what others think happiness is, define your
own happiness and don’t transgress the Final Testament and you know that you
will be alright.